all that aside, I would like to say something entirely
serious. whatever pain you have in your heart (no mind
reading required here; who doesn't?), you can give it
to me. however much or little. I would be both touched
and honored by your gift. this is something people do
not generally say to anyone. but life is short. I know
how to do this. it is what I can give back to you.

this must sound strange. but trying to explain would
only make it stranger. I trust you will know what I
mean. and yes, it is an outrageous proposition. of an
altogether different sort. no boundaries.