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Monday, March 29, 2004
some notable women in psychology
and sociology
It seems I've become known in many quarters today as your basic rabid attack dog. Which I don't really mind. I mean, what else would someone called RageBoy do? Say "let us reason together?" Not likely. However, because so much New Age "literature" is written by (and for) women, I worry that my negativity (ewww!) toward these (picking my words carefully here) fools makes it uncomfortably easy to see me as a card carrying misogynist. Which, I would argue, I am not. But neither do I tread lightly (nor carry a small stick) when it comes to calling a spade a spade. And a bitch a bitch.

On the other hand, in the last couple years -- critical years for me in more ways than one -- I have been helped and inspired by many women whose work I deeply respect, and I want to thank them here, as well as turn you on, Valued Readers, to some small sense of what they've accomplished. Please don't all applaud at once, as I've come to know myself well in enough in these same few years to realize I may have unconsciously written all this just so I could work in that reference to not having a small stick. The penis enlargement spam must finally be getting to me.

And now [fanfare and drum flourish], the moment you've all been waiting for. The envelope please...

Narcissism and Intimacy: Love and Marriage in an Age of Confusion
Marion F. Solomon
The first book I read about narcissism. I found it in a London bookshop just before I first met Gary Turner, about whom more soon, as we're fast coming up on the second anniversary of our historic intersection at the Chukka Bar in the Langham Hilton. I was over there to address the management of the BBC. This book kept me alive on what was a very sad solo trip. Don't be put off by the title's unfortunate reference to marriage. The ideas apply to any intimate relationship.
Healing Trauma: Attachment, Mind, Body, and Brain
Marion F. Solomon and Daniel J. Siegel (eds)
Much more recent (2003) than the above, Healing Trauma teams editors Marion Solomon and David Siegel (author of The Developing Mind: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are), who bring together contributions from developmental neuroscience and attachment theorists such as Allan Schore, Bessel van der Kolk, Mary Main, Robert Neborsky, Francine Shapiro, and Diana Fosha.
Schopenhauer's Porcupines: Intimacy and Its Dilemmas
Deborah Anna Luepnitz
I "reviewed" this one for the C.G. Jung site that my analyst and friend Don Williams maintains. Then I read the book. It's much better than my rant there might lead you to believe. ("My only problem with all this is that, obviously, neither of these mojo-intellectual Aryan geniuses [Schopenhauer and Freud] ever set foot in the woods.") The author also wrote The Family Interpreted: Psychoanalysis, Feminism, and Family Therapy, which I haven't read.
Trauma and Recovery
Judith Herman
If you only read one book on post traumatic stress this year, let this be the one. <g> Judith Herman's description (and advocacy) of "complex PTSD" is an important contribution to the literature, as there are many conditions not covered under the DSM-IV's criteria for PTSD. These include especially psychological and emotional abuse. Herman looks at a range of traumatic experiences from Vietnam combat to spousal battery to child neglect.
Love at Goon Park: Harry Harlow and the Science of Affection
Deborah Blum
The author won a Pulitzer for her work leading to The Monkey Wars. Goon Park, is a wonderful biography of Harry Harlow, the complex (twisted, brilliant, alcoholic, contrarian to a fault) individual who proved that love can't be reduced to operant conditioning to food rewards or anything else. Love is love. Harlow's monkey research provided the first really solid underpinnings for John Bowlby's attachment theory. Hugely readable. Highly recommended.
Opening Skinner's Box: Great Psychological Experiments of the Twentieth Century
Lauren Slater
I have written at some length about Lauren Slater elsewhere on this blog. Among others covered in Opening Skinner's Box is Harry Harlow (see above), which is primarily why I bought the book. But I would read Slater's shopping lists if she published them. She's that good. Welcome to My Country is an insightful and moving collection of essays, and Lying: A Metaphorical Memoir is a tour de force. The NY Times reviewed Skinner's Box just yesterday.
Insult to Injury: Rethinking our Responses to Intimate Abuse
Linda G. Mills
This 2003 book is sure to cause controversy. The author, a feminist herself, accuses what she calls "mainstream feminists" of using the simplistic notion of patriarchy to account for abusive male behavior. For one thing, as the supposedly patriarchal power structure is predominantly white and male, such theorizing does nothing to explain non-white or lesbian interpersonal violence. She also casts serious data-based doubt on the assumption that men are more abusive than women.
A Shining Affliction: A Story of Harm and Healing in Psychotherapy
Annie G. Rogers
Uncannily reminiscent of Lauren Slater's work, Rogers' writing on psychotherapy is deeply personal and poetic. In this memoir she describes her own descent into psychosis, which happened while she was treating a young boy whose problems triggered memories of her own abuse. The book also revolves around a cruel betrayal by own her analyst. Strong stuff, moving and painfully, as well as refreshingly, honest. You have to have said hello before you can say goodbye.
Flesh Wounds : The Culture of Cosmetic Surgery
Virginia L. Blum
It's no surprise that a book on plastic surgery would include much discussion of narcissism. What is surprising is how well grounded Blum is in psychoanalytic theory. At one point, she questions whether narcissism can be seen as a genuine pathology, since tireless self-absorption has become the "lifestyle choice" of choice for a majority of Western society. The pressures created by a consumerist mindset come in for serious discussion.
The Managed Heart: Commercialization of Human Feeling
Arlie Russell Hochschild
The author also wrote The Commercialization of Intimate Life. From the titles alone, you begin to get the idea. A major research focus is airline stewardesses, who tell of having to sell more than their time to the company. More devastating than the appropriation of their bodies (weight, looks, dress, etc.) is the colonization of their personalities. First published in 1983, The Managed Heart is a feminist classic, but the implications go far beyond gender.
Consuming the Romantic Utopia: Love and the Cultural Contradictions of Capitalism
Eva Illouz
My favorite part of this shows how "dating" coevolved with a consumer economy. Illouz questions how much our ideas of love are inherent to the human heart, and how much driven by the demands of capitalism, to the interests of which all truly human values have been subsumed. Plenty of books today question the reality of love, but this one is not out to show it's bogus, just that it's been manipulated so as to be nearly indistinguishable from other forms of consumption.
Interpersonal Diagnosis and Treatment of Personality Disorders
Lorna Smith Benjamin
I blogged some passages from this one a year ago (April 6, 2003) under the unlikely title slug: OTHER PEOPLE'S PERSONAL SHORTCOMINGS MAKE IT HARD FOR THEM TO GIVE ME THE COMPLIMENTS AND ATTENTION THAT ARE DUE ME. Including this: "The theory of the Klute syndrome suggests that patients cannot change in therapy if they repeatedly have orgasms while conjuring images having the interpersonal dimensionality of the disorder."
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis: Understanding Personality Structure in the Clinical Process
Nancy McWilliams
In the same blog post mentioned above, I listed some entries in this book's table of contents: Repression, Regression, Isolation, Intellectualization, Rationalization, Moralization, Compartmentalization, Undoing, Displacement, Reaction Formation, Reversal, Identification, Sexualization, Sublimation... Which is odd, as I had a conversation with Don today in which I said I'd never heard of "undoing." Except in the sense "she'll be my undoing." If there's a difference.
The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self
Alice Miller
A bit over two years ago, I picked this one up and got the first powerful flash that things were not what they seemed. Today, things are even less so. I guess I have Alice to thank. Or blame. Aye, there's the rub. While Drama barely mentions narcissism, another edition of the "same" book, titled Prisoners of Childhood, is all about narcissism. I'm still trying to figure out what happened to cause this massive revision. Could it be some weird wrinkle on sexual politics?
Attachment Theory: Social, Developmental and Clinical Perspectives
Susan Goldberg, et. al.
I list this book, in addition to its own value, as a tribute to the work of Mary Ainsworth and Mary Main, two researchers who hugely advanced the core theoretical work of John Bowlby. Attachment theory is no longer really a theory, as it is more firmly grounded on empirical research than any other aspect of psychoanalysis. After having been rejected by the psychoanalytic establishment for decades, it is now being incorporated into many aspects of psychotherapy.
Attachment Disorganization
Judith Solomon and
Carol C. George
There is secure attachment, which is the good kind to have experienced as a 0-3 year old kid. And there are two main kinds of insecure attachment: avoidant and ambivalent. Avoidants make great narcissists. Ambivalents make great borderlines. And then there's disorganized attachment. Which perhaps makes for great schizophrenics. This is partly tongue-in-cheek. But only partly. Disorganized attachment is the worst, a nightmare. You can see how I'd be attracted.
The Birth of Pleasure
Carol Gilligan
The author weaves a lengthy meditation on love using the myth of Eros and Psyche as a starting text. It is the only Western myth, she says, wherein love doesn't end in tragedy. I read The Birth of Pleasure in the midst of my own tragedy, and was deeply moved by it. Gilligan is a widely famed feminist, known largely for her ground breaking work about adolescent girls, In a Different Voice, originally published in 1982. I discussed Gilligan's work with my daughter when she was 13.

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